Happy New Year! 2026!

Welcome to 2026!

In 2025, I went back to work full time. It was both satisfying and challenging in the best way. I want to be useful,  to make a difference and I believe that work done with care matters, even when the results aren’t immediate. Some seeds take time to grow, and I’m learning to trust that process.

In 2025 I watched my daughter get married. It felt like a transformation – caterpillar to butterfly. Around the same time, she and my oldest son moved out of our home. It was a season of proud, bittersweet change. Watching your kids step into their own lives is one of the greatest rewards of parenting, even when it stretches your heart in new ways.

With less free time, I had to be more intentional about how I spent it. My car hobby took a back seat (car pun FTW!), and I leaned into collecting instead. If you know me, you know what I collect. If you don’t, let’s just say most of it rhymes with “toys.”

I don’t know exactly what 2026 will bring. There are signs pointing toward exciting opportunities, and others that suggest real challenges ahead. But I’m stepping into the year with optimism, energy, and a genuine sense of curiosity about what lies ahead. Let’s go!

Here’s to 2026 🥂

Happy New Year: 2025 🥳

As the year draws to a close, it’s the perfect time to reflect on where we’ve been and look ahead with hope and optimism. The start of a new year always feels like opening a fresh chapter—filled with possibilities and opportunities for growth.
When it comes to resolutions, it’s easy to focus on goals that are all about doing more, but this year, I’m reminded to focus on becoming more—more kind, more intentional, more grateful. Resolutions don’t have to be about perfection; they’re about progress and embracing the journey, one step at a time.
My hope is that 2025  brings new beginnings, restored strength, and deeper connections—for me, for you, and for all of us.
Sure, I had Chat GPT make that picture and write that text but I totally could have done it myself. 

Merry Christmas 2024

I hope all of you (out there) have a wonderful Christmas filled with love, laughter, and the warmth of being surrounded by those you cherish most.
As we celebrate this special season, let’s take a moment to reflect on the true heart of Christmas—the birth of Jesus Christ. It’s a reminder of God’s incredible love for us, the hope He brings into our lives, and the call to share that love with others. Whether it’s through a kind word, a thoughtful gesture, or simply being there for someone, we have the chance to reflect His light in a world that needs it more and more. 
Wishing you all a blessed and joyful Christmas!

Sunset for the Simpsons: Tapped Out

We are at an end, friends. EA said it is officially sunsetting the Simpsons: Tapped Out after twelve years. I can’t believe it’s been over a decade since I first cleaned up nuclear waste in Springfield. I spent a lot of time (and money) on this game. I haven’t played it consistently in years, but it was fun to revisit it periodically.  It’s a bittersweet reminder that nothing lasts forever. Thanks for the memories!

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The Tree and the Vine: Stories of Redemption

The Apple Tree

We have a little apple tree in our backyard. Around this time of year (August) it is covered in Apples! We recently had a strong storm and the apple tree fell over. My son and I tried to get the tree back up but, even with stakes, it just kept falling over.

Eventually I realized that the tree was just too heavy. I told my son that we needed to remove the apples. After we did that the little tree was almost able to stand on it’s own! We got it secured back into place and I’m glad to report that it’s doing fine.

Are we sometimes like this tree? We carry so much weight, such a heavy burden, that when the storms come we fall and cannot get back up? What are we to do? We need the extra weight removed and sometimes we cannot do this on our own.

Oftentimes it is Christ who can unburden us. When life bring us to our knees we call out and he helps us back up. Sometimes there is a proxy, like my son and I . We should be on the lookout for those who have, for a moment, been burdened beyond their ability, and see if we can find a way to help. “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ” (Galatians 6:2)

This story seems to have infinite insights- at least it has for me. The fruit of this tree was good. We can be so preoccupied with producing good fruit that it overwhelms us. The expression “too much of a good thing” is applicable to us, just like it is to the tree.

We were not meant to carry more than we can bare. When we fall there is a way back. Sometimes we cannot do it without the help of Christ or of those who are acting on behalf of Christ.

The Honeysuckle

The honeysuckle plant by our basement stairs was overgrown, inflected with disease and was being choked by a neighboring trumpet vine. In short, the honeysuckle was in trouble.

My wife decided there wasn’t really a way to separate the vines, or to salvage the current growth. She cut the plant down to it’s roots. It’s important to remember that the root system was still strong, having grown over many years. Slowly but surely the honeysuckle began to grow again. My wife placed the new growth on and around the railings and it has blossomed.

Are we like the honeysuckle sometimes? Our life is so crowded that we are just aimlessly growing, consuming, crippled by our overabundant lifestyle (or that of our rambunctious friends, the trumpet vines)? Maybe we occasionally need to be cut back to our roots so that we can regrow healthier and stronger and free from clutter and maladies. Maybe “loss” isn’t really loss if we grow from it.

Like the honeysuckle our root system is constantly growing. It’s probably stronger and more developed than we think it is. The master gardener knows us, sees our struggles and can help prune us if we ask (and sometimes even when we don’t ask).

Happy New Year: 2023! Let’s Rock It!

Every January 1st feels like a new beginning, to some degree. Take a moment, sit down and write out what you expect from yourself and from 2023. Make it a good year.  

Here are a few suggestions (potential resolutions?) from a guy who has been around the block):

🔹If you are struggling with depression then reach out to family, a trusted friend, or make an appointment with a healthcare professional. No matter how hard it seems or how bad it feels, take that first step- you are worth saving. You can also call the suicidal and crisis lifeline at 988.

🔹Saying “no” can be a challenge for many. If you let people, some will take until you have nothing left- some by mistake, some intentionally and some maliciously. If you can’t do it (if you don’t *want* to do it) then say “no.”

🔹Learn to be happy with what you have (says the guy with cars… I get it). Comparison is a thief of happiness. What someone else has does not impact what you have, and should not affect your personal happiness. Take a moment and mindfully think of the good things you have… you might be surprised. (FYI, there is nothing wrong with “more” as long as the motivations are pure).

🔹Find opportunities to serve. If you have a problem I guarantee it will disappear as you help others. Opportunities to serve aren’t limited to people with a flat tire.

🔹Be kind when people seem unkind. Instead of assuming negative motivations ask yourself this: “Why would a good, reasonable person act this way?” Attributing good motivations to behavior you don’t understand will make it easier to achieve a good outcome.

Stockpile Adventures, December 2022 – Nesting

Installing a Nest Thermostat to control our Warehouse’s gas heater was trickier than I had anticipated. But eventually (and with the help of the Internet) I figured it out.

Originally I thought I’d wired in the c-wire correctly, but I was advised via email that the thermostat had a problem at some point that night. The Nest runs on batteries so it will work even if you’re an installation ignoramus. But on batteries your time is limited. The Nest menu has a wire detection system / screen so you can see what is going on- all the wires need to be blue and my c-wire was not. I found a tutorial online (after an excruciatingly long search) and was able to hook everything up correctly as shown in the top right. All is well now and the Nest has been working great for a few weeks.

Here’s a quick video showing how to use a Nest thermostat with your heat-only system: